The effects of porn are destructive. Pornography is destroying marriages. In our culture, we know that porn is harmless, but still, we think it’s not. Pornography damages the arousal process in your brain and ends up wrecking your sex life in marriage.
Nowadays women are desperate to fix their marriages, but they don’t know what to do. Today’s men never seem to want sex. Or husbands are never satisfied with sex. Or they call them boring or unattractive. And the root of many of these problems is watching porn videos. The negative side of watching pornography isn’t about right and wrong. It’s about the effects that pornography has on the user and the effects it has on the loved ones of the user. Pornography use has serious, negative side effects.
1. Pornography Creates Emotional Bond With An Artificial Moves
Everyone in this world has a need for intimacy and emotional connection with others. But when someone views pornography, they end up creating an intimate bond with an artificial, fake world and they lose the ability to bond with their real partner.
2. Watching Porn Means You Can not Get Aroused By Your Spouse
When we see porn, it stimulates the arousal centres in the brain. When it’s accompanied by orgasm, then a chemical reaction happens and hormones are released. In effect, our brains start to associate arousal with an image, an idea, or a video, rather than a person.
3. Watching Porn Damages Your Libido
It’s natural. Many people who use porn in the past, or who use porn in the present, have virtually no libido when it comes to making love with their partner. The spouse is not what turns them on because the natural drive that anyone has for sex is transferred to pornography.
4. Pornography Is Just Unsatisfying
While pornography use may result in a short-term high, it eventually results in feelings of emptiness, low self-esteem and deep loneliness. It only creates emotional distance from your spouse in relationships.
5. Watching Porn Triggers Addiction Cycle In Brain
Brain function changes in someone who has an addiction to alcohol, drugs, or pornography. Because pornography use can become an actual addiction, viewers are not able to stop by their own willpower. Pornography addiction is same as addiction od drugs.
6. Porn Videos Makes It Hard To Be Tender When You Have Sex
People who use porn often have a hard time being tender when they have sex. Sex after porns tends to be impersonal, rushed, and forced. There’s no foreplay. There’s no waiting to arouse someone. It’s just taking what you want.
7. Porn Trains You To Have Immediate Satisfaction
When you watch porn, you reach orgasm very quickly, because porn users tend to masturbate at the same time. So, orgasm tends to be very fast. Pornography users’ body is programmed to orgasm quickly. Many porn users suffer from premature ejaculation.
8. To Porn Users, Sex Seem Like Too Much Work
When you are the addict of pornography, You’re not aroused, you find your spouse not attractive, and sex requires you to make an effort for your partner because you’re used to an immediate orgasm. Many people who use porn retreat into a life of masturbation. Even if the porn use stops, they often find it easier to relieve themselves in the shower than to have sex.