Letting go of a relationship that we did (or still do) care about is a very difficult thing for us all. Whether it’s a significant other, friend, or family member, we naturally do not want to bring any hurt upon them or ourselves.
There are times, however, where letting go of someone may be the best thing to do – even when it doesn’t feel good in the present. After all, this is your life…and only you can make the ultimate decision whether or not that person fits into it.
“All the art of living lies in a fine mingling of letting go and holding on.” – Havelock Harris
Look at these signs to know the right time to leave and move on.
# 1 You are not happy with this person
It seems to us that this is the most obvious and alarming sign that your happiness has come to an end. Relationships, of course, can sometimes bring sadness, but you should not feel the feeling of grief and depression all the time.
# 2 You can not relax next to your partner
If you often come across the fact that differently perceive certain things, then it is worthwhile to think about the quality of your relationship. For example, when you are having fun and dancing with your friends, then instead of approving, you hear from your partner only reproaches. Harmonious relations are built on common interests and beliefs.
# 3 The partner controls you in everything
Trust is one of the most important components of any relationship, and when you lose it, it means it’s time to end the relationship. Signs that the problem of your relationship in this, the following: you arrange interrogations to your partner, you doubt his words, actions.
# 4 Your partner isolates you from society
If your other half insists that you should only communicate with him, think about your relationship. Is it worth continuing them to be completely isolated from the outside world?
# 5 Unreasonable Jealousy
Jealousy can be different, and its manifestations directly depend on individual psychological qualities of a person. Some are jealous, only when they receive irrefutable evidence of the betrayal of a partner, and others, in order to become jealous, have the most insignificant reason.
# 6 Partner constantly depreciates your achievements
First of all, this indicates lack of respect. If mutual respect has disappeared from the relationship, and this is noticeable not only to you, but to others as well, it is probably time to dissolve such an alliance. If the partner does not consider your opinion at all, disrespectfully talking to you or, even more so, humiliating and insulting you, you should think about whether you are dear to him, because he does not behave with his beloved ones.
# 7 You can not think of a common future
We all make plans for the future, and even if they go as far as, for example, in the next few weeks or months, your second half should always be considered as part of them, even if the plans do not directly concern it. If you do not see a partner in your future plans, this is a sign that it’s time to end the relationship, because it is no longer a part of what is dear to you.
# 8 You are always to blame for the conflicts
To begin with, both partners are usually to blame for the conflict. If your partner always makes you guilty, then he is just a manipulator and you should consider whether to build a future with such a person.
# 9 Outbreaks of uncontrolled aggression
If your chosen one has allowed himself to lay a finger on you, then the question arises, can you then call him a man? In addition, if such an incident was once, it is not a fact that it will not happen again. Be careful and think about how far a man can go in his next fit of anger.
Be Prepared As Your Man No Longer Wants To Be With You. Here’s How To Know
The sad truth of life is that change can still come even when we don’t want it to. In relationships, nothing is ever set in stone.
You can never be certain of what tomorrow will bring. It only takes a moment for everything to come crumbling down all around you, and there’s nothing you can do about it. There have been many instances with relationships that come to a screeching halt because of changed feelings and altered emotions. A seemingly happy couple today could see the end of their relationship after a week. The reason for that is because feelings are never permanent. People change, and that’s the very nature of life.
All the everyday little details can show you whether your partner feels the same way for you. These small details can also show you what you usually do not want to realize, which is that the love that you once felt for each other is no longer present.
In this article we will show you 10 signs that will help you determine if your partner still feels the same way about you. Do not ignore them!
- No longer demonstrate love before
If you notice that your partner shows no interest in you and all he does is trying to impress some other person, then maybe it is time for you to move on, because the love here is over. The best thing to do in such situations is to focus on yourself.
2. Always thinking of something else
If it feels like your partner is always thinking of other things whenever you’re together, then you can bet that something is weighing heavily on their hearts. It may end up feeling as if your partner is only physically present, but emotionally unavailable.
3. No conversation topics
If your partner has no interest in your life and you do not have any common topics to talk about, then let us break it to you – you are no longer interested in each other. We suggest you go separate ways.
4. Your partner always blames you for everything that happens
Another good indication that your partner is falling out of love with you is if they let it affect their individual lives. They will start to fail at things, and they will most likely start blaming you for their failures.
5. You no longer support each other
Your partner cannot longer stand to be around you in any circumstance, he is annoyed by you and he mistreats you and everything you do is not good enough for him, if this is the case with you then you should probably leave him because you deserve better.
6. Always has an excuse for not being at home
Is he always working, going on business trips, traveling, playing games and drinking with his friends and never takes you with him? If this is the case, then we have bad news for you. He no longer loves you and probably has another woman in his life.
7. You are no longer in your partners plans
It used to be that your partner was your number one fan. You always knew that you could count on your partner to push you further in life. However, nowadays, it seems that your hopes and dreams are no longer relevant in the life of your partner.
8. Your partner is disrespectful towards you
Somehow, your partner is spending more hours at work. Somehow, they’d prefer to go out with friends than to go out with you. It means that they are no longer interested in spending alone time with you and maybe even dread the thought of it.
9. He/she does not give you any explanations
You used to have such an open relationship, and now, you find yourself being shut off from your partner. You feel like you aren’t being treated fairly and that your partner never indulges in your inquisitions anymore as if you aren’t worth the time or effort.
10. You hate and you hurt yourself
If you’re no longer happy in the relationship, it may be because it was designed for you to feel that way. Your partner wants you to be unhappy so that you can end things mutually.
16 Signs & Indications That Your Partner Is Cheating On You!
Relationships nowadays are just meant to limit till one-night stand or on or two months. And if you find your relationship to be long-lasting, and suddenly your boyfriend or girlfriend starts losing interest in you then it is a sign of cheating. Cheating partners may think that they are canny, but many of them unknowingly hint and give signs of their extra affair.
List of signs of cheating is discriminatory. Finding your partner’s betrayal is easier these days through messages, emails and social media. The question is now When to know your partner is losing interest in you?
Know What are the signs that you are being cheated on by your partner?
1. Claims privacy all of a sudden
Your partner will no longer grant you to touch his cell phone. Suddenly, he will demand to be private by secretly texting or calling someone when you are not around. These signs shouldn’t be ignored.
2. He’s talking a lot about someone new
People shut up once they’re having an affair but during the infatuation period when they think it’s innocent and nothing would ever happen, it’s very much ‘She said this and then she did that’.
Picture a school kid with a crush on their teacher – and sometimes it is just a harmless crush.
But if they abruptly stop mentioning them, it could mean one or both of them has crossed the line from friendship to romance and they’ve either stopped the friendship because of it or it’s fast moved into an affair.
3. There’s something missing in your relationship
Both men and women have affairs to get something they’re not getting from the relationship they’re in.
If you haven’t had sex for the last two years, it’s pretty obvious the cute redhead at your partner’s workplace who flirts with him is going to be damn tempting.
If your partner’s a workaholic and never around and your self-esteem’s at rock bottom, you might cheat to get some attention and to boost your self-confidence.
Tracey says that if you answer ‘Yes’ to six or more from this list it’s time to have a discussion with your partner
Other people cheat on ‘perfect’ partners for that reason alone: their partner’s perfection makes them feel less than perfect.
Some people are searching for something they lacked as a child, others for lost youth.
Whatever it is, few of us realise that’s what we’re really after while we’ve got our legs in the air in the hotel room or broom cupboard.
Has your partner talked about something not being quite right? Could be they’re about to find what they’re looking for elsewhere.
4. Saves name of new fling by fake name
Say, your boyfriend is cheating on you then he will avoid the contact of his new female friend or his ex with whom he is trying to patch up, with a fake name, i.e., maybe he will save the contact in the name of a guy’s name or maybe he will use some short form.
5. He was irritable or down and now he’s suspiciously cheery
It might be because he was questioning your relationship and has cheered himself up by flirting/sexting someone else.
Is your partner more or less affectionate than usual?
More could mean he feels guilty about something, less that he’s withdrawing from you.
6. Spending too much time on phone
Be it a WhatsApp, Facebook, Instagram, Skype or any other social media, he spends most of the time on his phone and keeps on ignoring you and your talks is a clear indication, he has found someone, and it is a big warning sign for you.
7. You’re doing all the work in the relationship
The person who gives the most in the relationship – really looks after it and nurtures it – is the person less likely to have an affair or cheat.
Problem is, they can become so fixated on ‘the relationship’ – building a nice home and financial future – they forget the person they’re building it with.
The partner then feels neglected and seeks attention elsewhere.
‘I was astonished when my husband told me he’d had an affair,’ said one woman I counselled.
‘I couldn’t have been any more supportive as a wife. But he said I’d stopped seeing him, as a person. I treated him like a husband not ‘Jonathan’. He was probably right.’
8. Have more female friends than you have
When you find he is having more female friends than you and his contact list is almost full with female friends it is evident he is cheating on you. You will frequently find him calling, chatting and meeting female friends and ex.
9. Your instincts tell you something’s wrong
Most people who seriously suspect their partner is cheating turn out to be right.
If you can’t put your finger on it, but you know something’s not the same and worry your partner’s being tempted elsewhere, trust your instincts.
Particularly listen to your intuition if you’re a woman who doesn’t have a problem with jealousy. We’ve got great inner radars.
10. He’s talking less
If he’s less interested in talking generally, it could be because he’s scared of slipping up.
If he’s just become interested in someone else, he’ll start volunteering less information about what he’s up to when you aren’t around.
11. He’s changed his routine or habits
If your boyfriend used to run at 5am and now he’s running at 7 pm, with aftershave on, you don’t need to be a rocket scientist to figure out something’s going on – or about to.
12. Often complains of Phone’s battery dying
Now and then, your partner gives you excuses that his battery is about to die either to avoid talking to you or he will switch off his phone intentionally when he is with someone else and lie to you in the name of his phone’s low battery life.
13. No more interested in sex
Suddenly, you find your partner losing interest in sex life and starts checking out other girls randomly even starts praising their curves, booty, nd physique.
14. Searching and following sexy women on social media
If you find your guy following sexy ladies on Instagram and Facebook, chat with them hiding from you than it is clear indication for you to leave him.
15. You’ve found a clue
A box of matches from an unfamiliar restaurant coupled with a guilty reaction.
Unexplained purchases on their bank statement to places you’ve not been to or florist bills for flowers you haven’t received.
The friend who calls to say they haven’t seen your partner in ages yet they were supposed to be out to dinner with them the night before.
All are warning signs they’re about to cheat or already have.
If they’re serious about the person they’re about to cheat with, sometimes your partner will deliberately leave clues, hoping to be discovered.
Or the person they’re flirting with will.
It’s rumoured Jackie O found a pair of women’s knickers stuffed into her pillowcase at the White House while she was married to Kennedy.
16. Forgetting important events
Your partner will clearly send a signal showing he is not interested in you anymore when he misses your art gallery exhibition or your first public representation event, or your important meetings and interviews then he is showing you a green signal he is engaged in a relationship with someone else.