So you know you like this guy and he is even showing you some attention, how can you tell if he’s also into someone else? Well, there is no positive way, but there are ways to make sure that he chooses you over every girl! Scroll on to find out!
Don’t be Desperate
Sure, it can be scary to think that he might like someone else but the first important step is to make sure that you don’t seem desperate. Even if it phases you, never act like it does! This is because doing something embarrassing will only ruin your chances!
Know Him Emotionally
Guys don’t usually open up a lot emotionally, therefore, when he finally opens up to you on a deeper level this means he is very interested. This will put you over any other girl because there is no way he can open up like this with everyone.
Try Liking What He Likes
Common interests are always great ways to get a guy. So if you even have one common interest, you can use it to your advantage! However, don’t change yourself for a guy.
Mirror His Actions
This may seem crazy but we swear it actually works! Don’t do it in a super obvious way but if you can see his body language then try copying it so he gets more comfortable.
Don’t Expect Him to Pay Always
Always try paying for at least half of the paycheck on your first date so he knows you are not cheap! Even after that, don’t just assume he will pay because things can change.
Let Him Run After You a Little
No guy likes a girl who he knows is always available because then it is too easy. Make yourself seem like a catch when he finally gets you instead of just being super easy.
Show How You Are Better Than Her
You know you are better than her but he might not know you well enough to see it so, show him through your actions. Show him how you can be caring, smart and confident when need be.
Figure Out What He Needs
Everyone has something that they lack and are looking for in a significant other, this is why he has this too. So use this to your advantage and try finding out what it is so you can see what role you could play in his life.
Don’t Change for Him
No one is perfect: he’s not perfect and you are not perfect. However, it is important to accept yourself and never change yourself for a partner. He should like you for who you are as a person and even if something you like might not be his cup of tea, don’t change girl!
This is odd, trust me but it has scientific proof! Red makes everyone seem more attractive and studies prove this. If you think red doesn’t suit you, think again! There is a shade of red for everyone
Don’t get crazy.
You might think this is obvious but it is easy for anyone to get crazy when they are into someone. However, hide this feeling and don’t get possessive over him because he is not yours just yet!
Understand Him, Don’t Just Fake It!
Make sure that you are not just listening to him but actually paying attention to what he is saying! If you care about him than this should be important to you because you actually want to understand him.
Always Look Good
You need to be confident around your guy and the best way to do this is to look your best. Obviously, if you feel your best you will also act your best around him! This doesn’t mean to change your appearance but just to feel better!
Don’t Get Full of Yourself
No one likes a cocky person so just be confident and not full of yourself! Just remember, you won’t have to tell how great you are if he can just see how great you actually are. Actions speak louder than words!
That seems simple enough, doesn’t it? Well, this is often what we forget the most! Guys love to see a girl smiling especially if it is a real smile. Every time he gives you a reason to smile, never pass on it so you can show him your amazing personality!